I am not like You

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Love is simply the name for the desire and pursuit of the whole.-Plato,



The ancient Greeks believed humans once had four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces. We were happy, complete. So complete that the gods,fearing our wholeness would quell our need for worship, cleaved us in two. Leaving our split selves to wander the Earth in misery. Forever longing, longing .......... longing for the other half of our soul. It is said that when one half finds its other, there's an unspoken understanding. A unity, and each would know no greater joy than this.
Of course the ancient Greek never went to high school, or they had realise Crap. We don't need the god  to mess things up for us.

If you ask me people spend far too much time to complete them. How many People find perfect love? or if they do, make it last? More  evidence of camus's theory that life is irrational & meaningless. And that, my friend , is some A-plus love philosophy right there or A-minus if Mr.G is in bad mood. Either way, it's an A or you don't pay.Outside are the dogs, the sorcerers the immoral person. And everyone who loves & practices lying.

In case you haven't guessed this is not a love story or not one where anyone gets what they want.


In love, one always starts by deceiving oneself..... and ends by deceiving other. That is what the world calls a romance. I hang out with my friend. I keep my head down. "I am a simple guy" which is to say if i knew what love was, I would quote myself. You know it takes 11 muscles to yawn? This is the sort of weird fact I find myself recalling to keep myself from Yawning. Or showing anything I feel really. We believe blindly & I turn to other people's words,too. "When you're a pretty girl, people want to give you things", what they really want is to make you like them. Not like them as in , I like you, but like them as in , i am like you.


I never really thought about the oppression of filting in before. The good thing about being different is that no one expects you to be like them. Doesn't everyone think they're different, but pretty much , we're all different in the same way?


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