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Last blog(alone part-2)

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 Being alone isn’t a bad thing. It’s a good, necessary, healthy thing. It’s a time to reflect, to appreciate, to think, to create, to process your life. Reflection and synthesis of ideas are crucial to learning and growing, and for many people, this can only be done when they are alone. Kierkegaard nails this with one of my favourite quotes: “Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards.” Damn, Kierkegaard, I bet you spent a ton of time alone. So why are we so damned afraid of being alone? Because we’re afraid others will think we’re lonely. There’s something wrong with lonely people, or else why wouldn’t they have people around them? There must be something broken about them! If you learn someone is lonely, you best stay away from them. Leave them to their cats. Loneliness results in more loneliness; it’s a beast that feeds itself. (Please know that I don’t believe any of this — or at least I don’t want to, but these are thoughts that I hear in my head beca...
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Don’t freak out. Figure it out.“

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You think man can destroy the planet? What intoxicating vanity. Let me tell you about our planet. Earth is four-and-a-half-billion-years-old. There's been life on it for nearly that long, 3.8 billion years. Bacteria first; later the first multicellular life, then the first complex creatures in the sea, on the land. Then finally the great sweeping ages of animals, the amphibians, the dinosaurs, at last the mammals, each one enduring millions on millions of years, great dynasties of creatures rising, flourishing, dying away -- all this against a background of continuous and violent upheaval.  Mountain ranges thrust up, eroded, cometary impacts, volcano eruptions, oceans rising and falling, whole continents moving, an endless, constant, violent change, colliding,   buckling to make mountains over millions of years. Earth has survived everything in its time. It will certainly survive us. If all the nuclear weapons in the world went off at once and all the plants, all the animals d...
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Everyone wants happiness instead of what?)

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 Happiness has numerous definitions from numerous people. Everybody in this world wants to get rid of the hardships. Maybe getting out of difficulty, is called happiness. what is it all about?  How it is bad in good? It's all about your blindness. It's all about knowing yourself.  I find in general people have very very little understanding of who they are. One has to turn a blind eye to so much of oneself to get through life. And you see it as your responsibility to bring all that out into the open.   Certainly. The good as well as the bad. Just concentrate on the good and all will be well. In the gladiatorial fight to the death, the artist either wins or loses. Age is cruel! If you see decay, it's because there's decay. If you see frailty, it's because there's frailty. I can't be blamed for what is. And I refuse to hide and disguise what I see. If you're engaged in a fight with something, then it's not with me. It's with your blindness.  Happin...
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Don't know

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The very definition of humanity is changing as we know it, and that's only happened like three times ever. First, there is our gradual transition from hunter-gatherers to agriculture. Then, this part's gonna blow your mind. There is the flushable toilet, which I already fucked up, sorry everyone. Ignore my penmanship. And that is my favourite part. That is what's robbing us of our understanding of what it means to be human.  It's destroying our emotional spectrum. There's only like or shame, pleasure or pain. All extremes, no grey, which is funny because it was our greyness that made us human all along.   So the sacred cow of the romantic ideal is monogamy. And the idea itself that it could be negotiated means already that something is missing. The conversation about infidelity and the conversation about the relationship is not the same. Because the essence of identity is secret. It's organised around a secret.  The concept of an open relationship is that your...
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Who are you?

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Adequately, everything's a transaction. In my, there is something that, you just can't see. And maybe that's for the best. The goal is to accept that I'm alone. I've spent so many years in my life trying to structure it, so that I I wouldn't feel alone but, finally you can't own anything. Not really.   So now, I like to look out in the sky. And if somebody kind, smart, and attractive want to spend some time looking out with me, well then that works too. It's a miracle. The saddest people are the one that doesn't know what they want. Who are you? Why are you like this?  Numerous society asked me this question. I may be anyone. I'm not the author's primary concern, you see. I'm what's going on inside the people. It's the psychology of the people. "Be not afraid! There is a full of noise. Sound and sweet airs that give delight, and hurt not. Sometimes a thousand twangling instruments will hum about mine ears, and sometimes voi...
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What was that?

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She committee Was it a wonderful moment? I don't know but that was surely a time which l never experienced before. We solved the problem. we argued about different ways of life. We have a different perspective on different topics. we read the blog, and we kissed too? Are we in a relationship? I don't know but we both hate it equally. Was it only an attraction or more than that? I don't have an answer. I'm changed from that point in time. I think she is different from me. Her love described was different from mine. According to her, "love is a beautiful emotion. People think that true romance is just slow dancing and long summer nights. Distorted by Hollywood depictions of Love and Breakups. It's nothing like that, love is hard work that feels easy. Day in and day out, you will work to build a life with a person. You fight over money, over intimacy, over broken things. All while things between you will feel like they will shatter, but they never do because o...
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Is this love?

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  Think about this for a moment: Why would you ever choose to be with someone who is not excited to be with you? There’s a grey area in dating many people get hung up on — a grey area where feelings are ambiguous or one person has stronger feelings than the other. This grey area causes real, tangible issues. “She said she’s not interested, but she still flirts with me, so what do I need to do to get her?” “Well, I know she likes me, but she didn’t call me back last weekend, what should I do?” “He treats me well when he’s around, but he’s hardly around. What does that mean?” Most dating advice exists to “solve” this grey area for people. Say this line. Text her this. Call him this many times. Wear that. Much of it gets exceedingly analytical, to the point where some men and women actually spend more time analyzing behaviors than actually, you know, behaving. Frustration with this grey area also drives many people to unnecessary manipulation, drama and game-playing — like “forgetting...
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